LEARN TO SAY 'NO'

It is very hard to say 'NO' right? In a very rough overview, it is said that some human will not easily put NO in their words of conversation and hardly to say it loud. For your information, saying NO is not just attempt to prove we are negative, opposite, damn bad or whatsoever. In contrary, NO is also an indication to prove that you are innocent, independent and also in a state of unreliable. But still, it would be very hard to some of us to say NO, in many aspects...

Let see whether you have enough courage to say NO in these mere conditions...

1. Your teacher really want you to participate in the International competition, but you are about to have a very important examination, that will determine your own future. Thus, you dont want to let your teacher leaves in dissapointment , but you know if your participate the competition, you can hardly manage to cope with your study..then your future is torn apart.
2. In a society, they put all the words of agreement to vote you as a leader of the society. But if there's a chance, you likely dont want to receive that such acknowledgment because you know that you dont really have capability to lead people. Contradictively, you dont want let them down after they put trust on you.
3. You have 2 closest friends, which is each of them have different personalities. One fine day, both of them are asking you to accompany to go for shopping. The probs is, each of them is heading different mall. Times Square and Mid valley. You would like to go to Times Square but what will you say to one that heads to Mid Valley?
4. Someone is giving you sum of money, in mind as bribe. But he just want you to help him with the signature to make sure that his action will be proven legal. You know that bribing or corruption is very incomprehensive. In fact, he just want a single signature, and you will be given money as a reward.
5. You are very tired after a long whole day of working. And then your phone is ringing. Your friend want you to help him with his brokendown car. In reality, you are not so close with him and he should have other friend to come help him out. You are quite mad upon his action of taking opportunity on you.
6. The next day, some crowded of people are backstabbing you without noticing they are talking behind you. They are accusing you of your irresponsibility action. But you know that you are innocent and want to seek the truth. will you stand forth to defend yourself?

Saying NO is not wrong, in fact in some circumstances it would be very necessary indeed. So why not trying to be little bit selfish for your own sake?or else anyone's sake?
Dont let everything burden on you and never take things for granted. So, learn to say NO..

p/s= It's indeed very hard to say NO. If only you can imagine in a very harsh condition. Let us try to put aside other heart. Think about yours first. Be wise too ^___^